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As I finish my rite of passage to adulthood, I began to ponder over the amount of emotional intelligence used daily. Thoughts and opinions of naïve yesteryears slowly quietens to a cat’s purr as I move forward slyly onto my work station and leave the world behind.

The pacifist attitude is a reverse change from the nihilism. Gone were the contextual exchanges of unfound idiocracy and instead onto objective, profound and qualitative feedback and criticism. This, provided a more productive work environment, hastening turnover and minimising politics.

Although, I would value my junior years. Mistakes, unintended exchanges and consequences have mould wisdom; not fear to the cerebellum. Actions then were less observed, resulting in outbursts of emotions that separates amateurs from professionals.

Its more mundane, normal and less exciting. The chaos did not surge or snowballed into a firestorm. Instead, the chosen path of the quiet shadows are embraced. To prevent stagnation, challenges were given for sustainable growth. Results may vary.

Any last words?

Don’t give a fuck

What constantly comes to everyone’s mind when it comes to living?

How do I go about it? What’s the risk? Why should I do this? Is it good or bad? What happens if it fails?

Doubts, fears and sceptic nuances are a narcissistic; nihilist believe that what we do is never good enough. Well, it could never be good enough. We’re not perfect, we’re human.

There are many times where if a risk is taken the expectation or reward is not favoured for the time spent or investment made. And as we move forward, we guard and defend ourselves from these pitfalls taking the direction most would choose as it is deemed safer. Is it a good way of living life? Yes, it is because it is a direction most proven.

To divert taking a direction less taken, with higher risks usually also equates to higher rewards. There will be times where a halt or a bump would come in the way but how it’s overcome it’s totally up to you. In the 21^st century, there are plenty of other ways but minimising those risks always comes to mind. Especially when the responsibility is multiplied the stress and the considerations weigh in has to be more than meets the eye.

So what is the objective? What is the best outcome to the perfect decision? There is none, to take it a day, a week, a month, or even a year, it is all up to you. Nothing is perfect because we are not perfect. And once we accept that, heading towards a goal that would give the satisfaction would be realised. I get requests all the time to do things to perfect; to elevate the sale, to close the deal, to eventually realise the dream. At the expense of my time and energy? My happiness? If the value put in is not worth, either negotiate or eliminate the risks.

Change is effort, life is precious and there is no other time than now. What’s lost is in the past, experiences gained are priceless. Maturity takes time and there is always plenty of obstacles. Opening the door and being vulnerable is the only way to take on challenges in life.

The risks, challenges and boundaries is only respected when the time and effort invested comes to light. Expecting instant gratification is a way of life in retrospective to today’s culture but we learn from the mistakes from history to improve, develop and test. Throw that fishing line, you never know what fish you might catch.

There will be times where it’s tough to rise, but even at our peak, we might make decisions that will make us falter. But, to wither and slump to a distance is not a desirable outcome. There will be ways and times even at our very best the push gets rough but persist on and persevere. You might never know someone comes through that door and welcomes with open arms and bring you up from down under. Never give up, never surrender and most importantly, never stop doing.

Passion and pride will propel you further from the truth but never let the reality stop you from your dreams. Dream, recall and write it down then work on it. You’ll get somewhere, never nowhere.

It’s a force to be reckon with when doing things your way and  other ways. Ultimately, it’s all about taking a positive perspective and choosing a path. The path less taken might be risky and surprising but ultimately it will be an experience.  You got to draw the line to see what it will look like or else its just an empty canvas. Believe, create and explore. There has never been a better time in our lives than now.

Reflections of the Year

Another year has passed and at the end we look back.

It has been quite the ride, knocked down, pick up and move forward.

I’m looking forward to 2019. It will be an interesting year. A mountain to climb, a peak to conquer.

Self-actualisation is realised and narcissism is out of the way.

There is no more worries for things I can’t control, but my life is in my own.

There are people out there that needs us. All of us to stand together as one for humanity.

Can we save the world? Yes we can.

Let us share and fill voids with jovial goodness and happiness

And with that legacy, a new world shall be born better than yesterday.

For a better future, a tomorrow, a positive change

Fight, Love and Survive.

Only time will tell but the soul believes. The fire burns brighter than a thousand suns.

As fragile and weak, the will stays strong through adversity. I’ve been through hell and back. And I’ve never felt better. Now let’s hope for the best.

Life flows like the river, the flow never stops and eventually we’ll see the sky and sea, if you look to the horizon, the setting will awe you in all its light and glory. Humanity will live on till the end of time.

Remember, there is a light to reach; another dawn. Make your own destiny.

See you in the open world 2019. Cheers!

Ignorance is a bliss

There are days where you wake up and a swarm of thoughts and impressionable expectations comes to mind. The heart feels gloom and dragging out of bed trying to make the best of the day by going about daily routine; waiting for the good day to come.

Truth is, that good day would never come unless you own the day.

The truth is as we have flaws and weaknesses. We sometimes relay these flaws onto others not realising that it could affect them. It could be a comment or just doing something out of subconscious. It’s just that we tend to take negative things to heart and it thrives in your mind.

Sometimes, we just need to take all these negativity, put it in a box and take time to reflect 

Often, with schedules and lifestyles, we tend to keep ourselves busy, going about our days as per normal. However, there will be times you feel down and let negativity get the better of us.

So how do we go about being positive and block negativity?

Get up, get out and do something. Ignore the negativity and concentrate on your well being. There is a solution or work around through everything in life. By being more positive, doing things you love or passionate, your actions and decisions would be better. Inevitably, there will be times where a challenge or obstacle will be in the way.

When you have control over your mind, body and soul, your life would be a positive one.

What makes me sleep every night is knowing that I do not waste my days sulking or brooding over negativity but instead knowing that I own my time and make the best possible outcome out of everything in my life. I do have my own weaknesses, but I don’t let it get to me. Instead, I focus on my strengths and develop them. If there are obstacles along the way, I take it as a challenge and do my best to overcome it.

And why only have a good day when you can make everyday a good and positive day?